What Does Intp Stand for on Tinder
What Does Intp Stand for on Tinder
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I´m at loss. How should one give some idea about the complex personality of an INTP, while attracting the suitable kind of woman, in only 500 characters?
Do I really need to lure her in by pretending being that social, normal, cool guy with a bad boy streak, but with hint of promise of something keepable? Only to portion out the craziness and awkwardness?
Any ideas anyone?
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English isn't your first language, is it? First, I would start by making that clear in your profile. Second, don't pretend to be someone you're not, you won't attract anyone who is right for you that way. Third, you need to show confidence, women love a man with confidence. Most of all, I suspect Tinder isn't the platform you want to use, it's more popular for hookups than dating, and speaking from experience, if you're not a "hot" guy, women will generally 'swipe left'. Statistically, online dating makes women very picky. Unfortunately, you stand a better chance of getting a date if you approach a woman in person.
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English isn't your first language, is it?
Nooooo, which I also make very clear in my signature 
This forum is almost the only time I write in English. My Tinder profile would be in Swedish, obviously. You DO know that Tinder and other things in the world exist outside US?
Most of all, I suspect Tinder isn't the platform you want to use... Unfortunately, you stand a better chance of getting a date if you approach a woman in person.
Well, yes. That is a no brainer, I realize that to. But if I still want to use Tinder.....
And also, where would one actually meet these women in person? In a bar at night, drunk? Sure, they may be less picky at that time, but I don´t just want to get them into bed, I want to meet someone for real. And she is probably introverted like me. And wouldn´t that mean that she´s probably is at home at that time, sleeping or reading something....
I havn´t found another setting for meeting introverted ladies yet, so Tinder will do for the moment.
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Maybe I need to clarify what I´m asking for. Not the general ideas as "be yourself, but be confident" and all that. I do know how to google shit. I would like concrete examples if possible. How do one as an INTP show ourselves to the world in a short text, without scaring everyone away?
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Apologies, I can't see anyone's signature, I'm on Tapatalk. Also, I met a woman from Georgia (the European country) in the U.S., and her English isn't even as good as yours, so for all I knew, you could be a foreign transplant in an English speaking country.
You have the same dating frame of mind as me, don't know of any other way to find like-minded introverts of the opposite sex. My first long-term relationship was with a girl at the local market, I just thought she was cute, so I asked her out. As far as online dating, I've personally had far better luck meeting women on pof.com, okcupid.com, and match.com, but I have no idea if those are viable options in your region.
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As an experienced user of online dating at this point, write about things that interest you and your intentions. If you want to bang you don't need to write much, just a sexy picture. If you want an actual relationship and Tinder is your only option then be blunt and to the point.
I have seen actual profiles as short as "confident" and other huge lengthy things. The goal of this is to just make talking points, showing who you are should be saved for actual conversation.
When to meet up is more of a cultural thing and you know that better than us. Personally I prefer to set up a date on day 2-3 of talking. Less time gets wasted. Talk long enough to know that they aren't immediately crazy, then go on the date letting others know where you're going and what you're wearing. You're a guy so the safety tips may be less relevant, but still a good cautionary measure.
Also, don't take your picture from a low angle pointing up. So many guys do that and it's extremely unflattering and shows that you're not that invested in this. Eye-level or a little higher is more flattering.
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English isn't your first language, is it? First, I would start by making that clear in your profile. Second, don't pretend to be someone you're not, you won't attract anyone who is right for you that way. Third, you need to show confidence, women love a man with confidence. Most of all, I suspect Tinder isn't the platform you want to use, it's more popular for hookups than dating, and speaking from experience, if you're not a "hot" guy, women will generally 'swipe left'. Statistically, online dating makes women very picky. Unfortunately, you stand a better chance of getting a date if you approach a woman in person.
Because men are all about inner beauty and don't fuss over looks, right?
Women are picky, period, no matter the medium.
Also, for crying out loud, do not describe yourself as easygoing, it's practically code for "I have no imagination"
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Because men are all about inner beauty and don't fuss over looks, right?
Women are picky, period, no matter the medium.
Statistically, men tend to be more realistic when it comes to being selective about physical appearance.
Also, for crying out loud, do not describe yourself as easygoing, it's practically code for "I have no imagination"
Women frequently use "I love to laugh" as a descriptor, it's one of the dumbest things to say. Of course women love to laugh, the entirety of the human race has enjoyed laughing since the dawn of our species. Equally unimaginative as above. I assume men are just as likely to say stupid things in their profiles as well.
I'm not out to villify anyone, plenty of men have been shallow and hurtful, too. Point is, humans are despicable more often than good, regardless of gender.
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Statistically, men tend to be more realistic when it comes to being selective about physical appearance.
Yeah, that explains why all forms of visual entertainment including porn and cinema cast the way they do, it's all as realistic as it gets right? Ditto the obsession men have with teens, right?
I am tempted to print that graph, wipe my ass with it and share a pic of the aftermath. It's clearly the redpill equivalent of a cave painting.
Women frequently use "I love to laugh" as a descriptor, it's one of the dumbest things to say. Of course women love to laugh, the entirety of the human race has enjoyed laughing since the dawn of our species. Equally unimaginative as above. I assume men are just as likely to say stupid things in their profiles as well.
I'm not out to villify anyone, plenty of men have been shallow and hurtful, too. Point is, humans are despicable more often than good, regardless of gender.
Epic backpedalling, gg.
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Chicks dig gay guys.
Tell 'em you're looking to go straight and want the first time to be special.
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Yeah, that explains why all forms of visual entertainment including porn and cinema cast the way they do, it's all as realistic as it gets right? Ditto the obsession men have with teens, right?
I am tempted to print that graph, wipe my ass with it and share a pic of the aftermath. It's clearly the redpill equivalent of a cave painting.
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your first mistake is asking the intp forum
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your first mistake is asking the intp forum
That's funny. The last time I gave hook up advice, I was accused of being estp.
Too bad the whole thread was moved to Spamworld during the Great Tapping Purge.
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That's funny. The last time I gave hook up advice, I was accused of being estp.
Too bad the whole thread was moved to Spamworld during the Great Tapping Purge.
that is quite unfortunate, i hope at least if this thread was opened up in the estp forum it wouldn't have turned into a mgtow bs discussion
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that is quite unfortunate, i hope at least if this thread was opened up in the estp forum it wouldn't have turned into a mgtow bs discussion
One can hope.
If a thread does pop up there, be sure to let me know.
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Statistically, men tend to be more realistic when it comes to being selective about physical appearance.
Those two whoms at the top of the chart are really bothering me.
I hope I don't have nightmares.
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I´m at loss. How should one give some idea about the complex personality of an INTP, while attracting the suitable kind of woman, in only 500 characters?
Do I really need to lure her in by pretending being that social, normal, cool guy with a bad boy streak, but with hint of promise of something keepable? Only to portion out the craziness and awkwardness?
Any ideas anyone?
I doubt "the suitable kind of woman" uses Tinder. I think you have a lot more luck searching in places where you yourself enjoy being.
For example, I found my wife on this forum.
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A seductive photo of you IN a TeePee is a must, assuming you like girls who dress up in leather, or girls who dig secret codes?
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A seductive photo of you IN a TeePee is a must, assuming you like girls who dress up in leather, or girls who dig secret codes?
Actually, some of those leather people might like it even better if you drank a lot of tea, sat still for a while then took the shot after you couldn't hold it anymore.
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I doubt "the suitable kind of woman" uses Tinder. I think you have a lot more luck searching in places where you yourself enjoy being.
For example, I found my wife on this forum.
True, although if you work out the numbers they probably amount to the same thing.
Dating app = high availability, poor quality field.
Other random places/platforms = low availability, high quality field.
(That cute bookshop girl is just some character, always taken...)
Source: https://www.personalitycafe.com/threads/how-should-a-tinder-profile-look-like-for-an-intp.1317393/
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